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shedvl's Profile -
What's a girl gotta do to get some discipline??!! |
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39 year old Woman in Millbrae, California, United States
Looking For: Men for Backrubs/Massage, 1-on-1 sex, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Group sex (3 or more!), Bondage & Discipline, Role Playing, Exhibitionism/Voyeurism, Sadism & Masochism, Misc. Fetishes, Other "Alternative" Activities or Serious Relationship. |
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Gender: |
Woman |
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Birthdate:
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November 12,
1965 |
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Sexual
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Straight |
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Lives in:
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Millbrae, California, United States
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Relocate?:
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No |
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Marital
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Divorced |
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Height: |
179-180 cm |
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Body Type:
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Ample |
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Smoking:
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I'm a
light/social smoker |
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Drinking:
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I'm a
light/social drinker |
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Education:
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Some college |
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Race: |
Caucasian |
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Religion:
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Spiritual |
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Have Children:
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No |
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Want Children:
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No |
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Bra
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42 D
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Speaks: |
English,
PigLatin |
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Profile for
shedvl |
| UPDATE: If you are biologically old enough to be my father, or young enough to be my son, please don't write to me! Also, I have NO interest in a long distance relationship, so if you're more than say 60 miles away, again, please don't write. And for those of you who don't bother reading the profiles, just gawk at the pictures; I am NOT interested in booty calls, so please waste somebody else's time!! When in the bedroom, if I enjoy the IDEA of being completely controlled & dominated, forced to do what I'm already secretly willing to do, called trashy names, threatened, scared, punished; if an element of danger excites me, & a degree of pain turns me on; if being restrained against my will, totally powerless, makes me hot & IMAGINING being play raped gets me wet, am I considered submissive? Just straight kinky? What if my secret desire is to belong to someone? NOT "owned", but in a COMMITTED, LOVING, "normal?" relationship by day, & be completely dominated sexually, ALMOST property (of course "He" ALWAYS makes SURE that I KNOW I mean SO MUCH MORE to "Him"), by night? Would that make me a Bottom? Deviant? But what if I LOVE affection, & wanna be cherished too?! See why I'm confused?? I'm not being coy, I still haven't really figured out which category I fall under. These are embarrassing truths that I am getting used to, & am dying to explore, but with the RIGHT man ONLY!! PLEASE don't waste my time, or yours, by responding if these descriptions don't fit PERFECTLY with your needs & desires, or if you're just looking to get laid. I'm not an idiot, it's quite clear to me why the majority of people are on here, & though I'm not here looking for monogamy exactly, I'm also not here for meaningless, kinky sex. I require SO MUCH more, & if you don't, MOVE ON!! I'm the real deal, what you see/read, is what you get! You be too! No pic, no response, NO EXCEPTIONS!! |
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| I guess I'm looking for the above with someone that I trust. Someone who treats me like a lady outside the bedroom & a whore inside, but who can also make love tenderly if we feel like it. I don't want my self esteem damaged, or to hang out with someone who gets off on degrading women, I just want some scary excitement! I am ALWAYS in control so I guess that's why I have NO desire to be in control in the bedroom. I know I sound undecided or confused, but that's because though I've played a little, I still haven't really found my niche, plus I've discovered there's A LOT of frauds & wannabe's on here! I'm insatiably curious, & desperately want to explore this dark side of myself, but not with just anyone...IF you WERE right for me (& I don't wanna hear from you if you're not), you would NEVER utter the words "you won't LET me dominate you"! You would NOT be intimidated by a strong, independent, intelligent, outspoken kind of woman when she's not in the bedroom, but rather enjoy TRYING to tame her IN the bedroom. ;) You would be turned off by a doormat, & charmed by a smart ass who really DOES want to COMPLETELY submit to the RIGHT one. You'd instinctively know that her tough girl act is just that, an unconscious protection mechanism that she doesn't WANT to have to need. You'd appreciate her for her desire to explore & experiment, & respect & cherish her for her willingness to try most anything to please you. HER pleasure would be AS important to you as yours, & you'd ALWAYS let her know that she counts too! You would truly be a man of integrity, & you'd KNOW that NONE of this is possible if there isn't COMPLETE trust between you, but once that was established, the sky would be the limit! You'd be patient with a beginner who's scared to death she might laugh, yet forceful when it counts. You'd understand how difficult it might be for her at first, having always been a "good girl", & you'd be touched by her concern of what your opinion might be if she were to behave like a slut, even at your direction. You'd be nurturing & sensitive to her many fears, even gentle with her, perhaps during the severest of punishments, because you'd KNOW that above ALL else, she NEEDS to KNOW how important she is to you AT ALL TIMES. Tall, dark & handsome would NOT piss me off, nor would a great sense of humor! I'm a demanding little firecracker I suppose! Pretty high maintenance I guess, but worth the effort, I guarantee - I give what I get! If you truly think you're the RIGHT one, & you can handle me, let's play....rough! UPDATE!!! I SAID...I DON'T WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU IF THIS AIN'T YOU!! Quit wasting my time pretending to be someone you're not!! I know that's harsh, but FUCK!!! It should scare away all imposters now! Look, I just don't wanna spend the time, K? If my pointedness is a turn off or you're not somehow even a teeny bit charmed, then we won't work, & if you've made it this far, I'm impressed, but you need to be on your way now, cuz I'm NOT for you! UPDATE #2!! If you're someone else's man, not only are you an asshole, but you're not gonna hear back from me! Clear enough??
Favorite television shows: Seinfeld, of course!! True crime.
Favorite movies: Basic Instinct - SOOO HOT!!
Favorite musicians or bands: Die hard lover of Earth, Wind & Fire & The Commodores
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